Friday, February 22, 2019

BREAKING NEWS! SNAP & SNAN (Survivors Network of Abused Nuns) from Vatican City!

http://www.snapnetwork.org/nun_abuse


 For at least eight years, victims of child molesting nuns and members of SNAP have repeatedly urged America's largest organization of nuns to expose the truth about child sex crimes and cover ups by women religious. But the LCWR (Leadership Conference of Women Religious) continues to essentially rebuff us and them.



Now more than ever, since they're being attacked by bishops like we have been (and are being), nuns should be sympathetic to our plight. It grieves us to have to keep prodding them to take long-overdue, simple steps to protect the vulnerable and heal the wounded. But how can we do otherwise?



Here is Mary in red, on right,  in Rome at the Vatican representing we survivors of SNAN Survivors Network Abused Nuns

Contact: Mary Dispenza 


The painting below is by Tom Eminson, Jr., his self portrait, Tom is also a survivor from the Archdiocese of Philadelphia. When Snap's Mary Dispenza asked me to give her my thoughts or comments as she packed for her sojourn to Rome. I thought long and hard after blogging in words for 15 years, but Tom's art spoke to me,  art beats words into ideas and feelings. I met Tom at orphan reunion ten years ago,  at a time he faced his abuser, where he bravely shared his soulful expression of how he and many of us felt so many years ago, and still feel today. 

Abandoned,  alone, sadden, who could we talk to. The Commonwealth of Pennsylvania considered us chattel and in exchange overed St. John's Orphan Asylum, and St. Joseph's House for Homeless & Industrious Boys for silver, (the state funded our mean caregivers), to the Archdiocese for safe keeping! That was not a reality for me and others. 




2002 - LCWR refuses to participate in USCCB’s “Policy for the Protection of Children”
April 5, 2002 - LCWR issues statement on clerical abuse
August 24, 2002 - LCWR National Board issues statement on sexual abuse
June 12, 2004 - Nun survivors meet for the first time in Denver at SNAP Conference
July 13, 2004 - Hand-delivered to LCWR and USCCB from nun survivors regarding Plan of Hope, Respect, and Open Healing. Also requested nun survivors be allowed to speak at LCWR-CMSM Joint Assembly in Ft. Worth. To date, we received no answer from USCCB.
August 5, 2004 - Letter to LCWR from SNAP expressing dismay over their decision not to let us speak
August 9, 2004 - E-mail to National Review Board to intervene on our behalf
August 13, 2004 - LCWR Press Release: Response of LCWR President Sister Constance Phelps, SCL saying we can’t speak in Ft. Worth
August 19 to 22, 2004 - Joint LCWR – CMSM Assembly in Ft. Worth, TX. Nun survivors attempt to attend event but are refused.
October 3, 2004 - Meeting with LCWR Leadership in Chicago
November 22, 2004 - LCWR letter to SNAP refusing to work with SNAP members who are survivors of sexual abuse committed by nuns and sisters
August 2, 2005 - Not allowed to speak at LCWR National Conference in Aneheim, CA; we are present – we delivered letter
August 17, 2006 - Not allowed to speak at LCWR National Conference in Atlanta, GA; we are present – we delivered letter
August 24, 2007 - LCWR contacts us to meet to talk but LCWR does not provide an agenda after numerous requests; Not allowed to speak at LCWR National Conference in Kansas City
September 19, 2007 - LCWR responds to SNAP, denying all five requests
August, 2008 - LCWR rebuffs us via letter; SNAP holds night-time vigil
October 9, 2008 - SNAP meets with Council of Major Superiors of Women Religious in St. Louis; requests are denied
February 23, 2009 - SNAP asks to speak at the LCWR conference in New Orleans
March 26, 2009 - LCWR denies all of SNAP's requests
August 11, 2009 - Not allowed to speak at LCWR Conference in New Orleans; we deliver letter
August 14, 2010 - Not allowed to speak at LCWR Conference in Dallas; we are present
August 16, 2011 - LCWR National Conference in Garden Grove, California
August 7, 2012 - LCWR National Conference in St Louis; SNAP members deliver letter and hold vigil

Letter sent to bishops:

Aug. 8, 2012

Dear Archbishop Sartain Bishop Blair, Bishop Paprocki

We write you with great sadness and reluctance. Each of you, like most of your colleagues, has done a poor job of dealing with child sex abuse and cover up. Still, each of you have a chance to prod US nuns to do a better job in this regard. For the sake of prevention, healing, openness and justice, we hope you seize this opportunity.

We have little faith in "internal" church "investigations" and reports on clergy sex crimes and cover ups. We have even less faith when they're conducted by bishops or “outside” firms hand-picked and hired by bishops.

Still, something is often better than nothing. That’s the case today with abuse and cover up by nuns. Right now, there's very little known about child sex crimes and cover ups by nuns. No one's apparently trying to learn more. And as best we can tell, no one inside or outside of the nuns’ community is trying to prod them to do a better job of protecting the vulnerable and healing the wounded.

So with considerable reluctance and distrust, we're asking you to expand your “oversight” of the LCWR into what the organization – and America’s religious orders of women- are doing and are not doing regarding child sex crimes and cover ups by nuns.

Why does this matter? Because we believe that many abusive nuns have never been exposed or disciplined.
many who have seen, suspected or hidden their crimes have similarly never been exposed or disciplined many who were abused by nuns have coped by essentially denying and mischaracterized the crimes they suffered, and minimizing the impact of those crimes, so they suffer in confusion, denial, isolation, shame and self-blame.

We suspect that fewer nuns molest than priests. (Research suggests that more men are sexual predators.) At the same time, however, that’s just speculation. And regardless of the rates or percentages of abuse, two other facts are important. First, there are more nuns than priests. (55,944 nuns in the US versus 41,406 priests) Second, many more nuns had more access to more kids, largely because they worked and work in schools.

Ultimately, however, the numbers or percentages are not especially relevant. If there are 400 or 4,000 or 40,000 adults who were victimized by nuns in this country, every single one of them deserves help. And if there are 4 or 40 or 400 children who may be victimized in the future by nuns in this country, they need protection.

Again, we take this step with great sadness and reluctance. Everyone knows most nuns don’t commit or conceal child sex crimes. Everyone knows that most nuns do wonderful, selfless work, often to help society’s marginalized.

But we see little or no evidence that nuns – either in or through the LCWR or their individual orders – are in any way, shape or form “trailblazers” in making the church or our society safer from clergy child predators or making substantial contributions to the healing of those who suffer because of clergy child predators.

It’s a painful truth to acknowledge. It’s unusual and unsettling for us to seek your help in dealing with it. But our concern – for the vulnerable and the wounded – and our inability to get the LCWR to be more proactive, leave us with few other options.

In the 1965 National Religious Directory:

Sisters 179,954
Diocesan Priests 35,925
Order Priests 22,707
Total Priests 58,632
Brothers 12,271



1950's pictures of Sisters of St. Joseph of Philadelphia, (SSJ) from St. John's Orphan Asylum in this picture are 2 of my abusers! My quick story >>

1) 9th person to the right, Sister Alice Patricia Waters, SSJ, 
circa 1953, my 1st grade teacher, Section "L" 

2) (1st person on left) Helen Constance Clark, SSJ 
circa 1957, my 5th grade teacher, Section "B"
View showing the Roman Catholic Church (cornerstone laid 1867, 4800-4814 Lancaster Avenue), and adjacent St. Johns Orphan Asylum (built circa 1852) at the east end of the Cathedral Cemetery. In the right of the image, the Gothic-style church stands next to the gated entrance with gatehouse to the cemetery. A small church outbuilding, trees and paths landscape the church grounds. On a hillside behind the church, the asylum is visible. Several children stroll and play under the presence of Sisters of St. Joseph on the tree-lined property. In the foreground, pedestrians and horse-drawn carriages and buggies travel on Lancaster Avenue. Also includes printed annotations for the "Cemetery Gate" and "48th St." Our Mother, built after the designs of Edwin Forest Durang, replaced St. Gregory's Church built on the site soon after the purchase of the land in 1849 by Bishop Francis Patrick Kenrick for the development of a cemetery and other Catholic institutions in West Philadelphia

This is an early 1920's picture, but later in the 1940's Grace Kelly's dad John B Kelly (Kelly for Brickwork from "bricktown" Germantown, PA) added a 3rd floor and that was were
the nuns individual rooms or cells as they were called. The teaching nuns would be upstairs in the main building! When my mother was a girl she babysat for the Kelly's. Grace's uncle was friends with my grandfather Edward J Leddy, who operated a saloon until Prohibition closed it down!


Here is St. John's attached classroom building, the main building in background, and the swimming pool!


 Today the building main entrance is a mental health outreach clinic center!
50-70 little boys, with the supervision of 1 dormitory nun watching and sleeping in a nearby cell room with sliding glass window under her watchful eyes! We had what the nuns would shame call some boys "wet the beds"! But before we went to sleep, the dormitory sister would remind us if we left out beds at night the devil would pull us straight to hell! No wonder some wet, while others just snuck out to use the water closet, and if we did use the pull chain to flush she we awaken! 



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